Memo to My White Brethren: The South Lost. Get Over It.

confederate flag with ban marking

I’ve had the good fortune to be born a white male in the United States of America.

So it’s pretty easy for me to hold fond feelings for this great country that has blessed me with so much opportunity. I love America. I believe this is the best place in the world to live.

Sadly, not everyone living here has shared in my positive experiences.

I’ve never been belittled by racist taunts. My parents were never denied employment or housing for being white. My grandparents were never afraid to vote.

None of my great-grandparents were ever lynched. None of my great-great-grandparents endured the living hell of slavery.
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COVID-19 Cure is Now Worse Than the Disease

Two people in masks behind plastic barrier

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According to the Centers for Disease Control, approximately 2,810,000 Americans died in 2017, for an average of 7708 people per day, or one every 11.2 seconds.

Statistics for 2017 show that 647,457 people died of heart disease, making it the #1 killer of Americans.

Cancer of all kinds ran a close second, causing 599,108 deaths that year.

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Why America Needs an Economic Time-out

Photo of James Stewart as George Bailey in "It's a Wonderful Life"

James Stewart as George Bailey

Most of you are familiar with George Bailey, the neighborly president of Bailey Savings & Loan played by James Stewart in the classic Christmas movie It’s a Wonderful Life.

George Bailey was generous, helpful, and genuinely concerned for the welfare of his customers – his neighbors – and he helped make Bedford Falls the kind of town where you’d want to raise your family.

Close-up of Lionel Barrymore as Mr. Potter in "It's a Wonderful Life"

Lionel Barrymore as Mr. Potter

Surely you also remember the movie’s villain, Mr. Potter (played by Lionel Barrymore), a miserly old grouch who owned most of the rest of Bedford Falls and used the advantages of his wealth to, well, take advantage of people.

Thanks to the unavoidable economic fallout of the COVID-19 pandemic, our economy is facing a tsunami wave of bad debt. So we are getting ready to find out just what kind of lenders we have in the USA these days.

And right now, the financial services industry is looking a lot like Mr. Potter. Continue reading

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Learning to Trust When Life Goes Bust

In light of recent events, I am sharing the all-time most popular post of my blog. This tale of trials and deliverance seems so timely right now. Originally published August 20, 2015.

Please allow me to share my tale of woe.

The past five years have been tough for the Smith family. Lots of unpleasant things have happened to us.

Forgive me if it sounds like I am looking for sympathy…that is not my intent.  But I do believe that this true account of our season of trials provides a great excuse to brag on the Lord a little.

March 2011 – I had my second heart attack (see Another Routine Day in the ER) which maxed out our health insurance out-of-pocket expenses for 2011. (Out-of-pocket maximums that have more than doubled since the implementation of Obamacare, but don’t even get me started on that!)

Summer of 2012 – a dear friend of mine, a very sweet woman whom I had worked with for 12 years, became gravely ill with cancer and had to undergo a year’s worth of chemo, radiation and surgery.

November 2012 – I had emergency gall bladder surgery right after Thanksgiving. I was one sick little puppy before and after that procedure! (See My Birthday Trip to the Emergency Room.)

December 2012 – I had another surgery right before Christmas to remove a small cancerous tumor from my bladder. This surgery was followed by check-ups every three months with an urologist who used a “not-slender-enough-to-suit-me” scope to inspect my bladder and search for any recurrence of the cancer. (I will leave the unpleasant details of these inspection procedures to your imagination.)

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The Happiest Day of My Life for 40 Years

I warn you, this story will sound strange.  But this is just the way it happened. photo of bright yellow and orange sunrise

For many years, I was hesitant to share my testimony with people because it was so unusual, and because it was such a precious memory for me. 

Then in 2011 I joined a week-long mission trip to Guatemala.  One of my assignments during this journey was to share my testimony with several groups of elementary school children. 

This forced me to condense the story of my first meeting with God into a four minute presentation that was simple enough for young children to understand.

So I invite you to pretend you are a Guatemalan third-grader, and join me on this G-rated stroll down memory lane to the Spring of 1980…

When I was growing up, I often wondered about God. How could anybody really KNOW if God was real? How could you KNOW if he heard your prayers? I could not imagine how it was possible to know such things. Continue reading

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Attention Haters: You’re Getting Mad at the Wrong People

Martinsville, Indiana—David is a doctor. He helps treat cancer patients, who are among the most vulnerable during this COVID-19 outbreak.

That’s why it is so ironic that he should be harassed by a bigot at a local gas station.

man wearing medical mask holds hand out in "stop" signal

Last Friday, Doctor David made a routine stop at the Marathon station on Burton Lane in Martinsville for fuel. Then he walked inside to buy a cup of coffee.

WISH-TV news reports that “when he went inside the clerk immediately started yelling at him, asking if he was Chinese, and told him to leave.”

The report quoted David’s retelling of the incident: “He continued to ask where I’m from and yelling at me. And then I told him that I am from Korean descent but was born in Louisville, Kentucky, and haven’t traveled out of the country in many many years. And he just went off.”

The clerk kept getting angrier and told David to “get out, and never come back.” Continue reading

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How to Cure Your Coronavirus Anxiety

So, you’re freaking out because there’s a coronavirus pandemic?

Miss hanging out with your friends?

Can’t work, wondering how you’ll pay your bills?

Afraid you’re gonna get sick and die?

There is a cure for all this anxiety, but it requires some self-examination.

Because in fact, you only have one real problem, and it’s the same problem everybody else on earth has.


See that little dot in the picture above? That’s you, where you are, right now, at this moment in time. In the grand scheme of things, your life amounts to one little dot.

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What Would You Do with Your Last Month on Earth?


Pretend for a moment that God has given you a special break: He has allowed you to be the only person on earth to receive 30 days notice of your death.

Most of us will never have a clue. We usually die suddenly and unexpectedly. Even if you’re elderly and ill, you could linger on a good while with no idea exactly when you would draw that last breath.

But you have been notified! You know you have a month to close out your life. What an incredible gift that would be. Armed with the knowledge that you have 30 days to prepare for your exit, think of what you could do!

Foolish people might consider traveling the world on their credit card, knowing they’d be dead before the bills came due.

But a wise person would never disrespect this gift. He or she would take advantage of the 30 days notice and wrap up the business of life. Continue reading

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With Thanks to Soldiers I Have Known

This was originally posted in 2009…but it bears repeating…

soldiers departing for deployment

I write this today, and you read this today, because millions of American soldiers, engaged in various battles that spanned over more than two centuries, fought for the cause of freedom.

I have had the privilege of knowing some of these men and women. They are regular, everyday working people, paying their bills and raising their families. They don’t consider themselves special.

They will, without exception, tell you that they were just doing their jobs during those times when they risked life and limb to protect us.

I have known my wife’s Uncle Nick for over 35 years. A great guy, a retired automobile salesman, Nick has always been a fun guy to know. We get to see each other at least once a year at a Labor Day family reunion, and I have always enjoyed sharing some laughs with him.

In all that time, I never knew he had been in the military.

Last summer, my wife and I were visiting at Nick’s new home in Greenwood. He was gone at the time and his wife, Aunt Marilyn, was giving us a tour of their new place.

I noticed a plaque hanging on a wall in the hallway. On one side was a black and white photo of a trim young Uncle Nick in a United States Marine uniform. On the other half of the plaque was a print of the famous WWII photo of the Marines raising the US flag atop Mount Suribachi on Iwo Jima.

I mentioned to Marilyn that I had never known that Nick was in the Marines. “Oh yeah,” she replied, “He was all over the Pacific back then. He went to Guam and Tarawa and Iwo Jima and a few other places.” She mentioned it so casually, it almost sounded like a cruise itinerary.
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The Trouble with Taking a Knee

flag & v-sign

Hell must have frozen over.

My old buddy Mike, the most rabid football fan I have ever known, stopped watching the NFL this season.

“I can’t watch that crap anymore,” he told me recently.

This is a man who lives for football. A man who sinks into post-partum depression every February a week after the Super Bowl.

But his wife is thrilled. Now Mike takes her out to eat on Sundays.

My buddy is just one of millions of NFL fans who are tuning out their favorite sport. They are too irritated by the kneeling protests during pre-game ceremonies. Continue reading

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